I was recently informed, by a childhood friend, that my name was submitted to serve on our high school class reunion planning committee. Actually, she is the one who signed me up. I told her that I wasn’t going to participate because I don’t plan on attending our next reunion, just like I didn’t attend the first two. Well, I couldn’t attend the first one because I was in Jamaica getting married. But I wouldn’t have gone to the reunion anyway.
So the question is, should you attend your high school class reunion?
The answer should be that it depends on the individual. But a lot of people don’t look at it that way. They feel EVERYONE should attend class reunions because it’s going to be fun, and you get to see your old classmates. But I look at it like this. I HAD to go to school, I DON’T HAVE TO attend class reunions.
I don’t do class reunions.
Of course those that are excited to the point of hyperventilating about their high school class reunions were the popular kids. Jocks, cheerleaders, and class clowns. Loud mouth, gum-popping girls. Cliques. Don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about.
I wasn’t popular, but I wasn’t an unknown either. I lived on the honor roll, was active in sports, band, and even had a column in the school newspaper. I didn’t belong to a clique, I was quiet and shy, and preferred to keep to myself. And I didn’t like half, if not more, of the kids anyway.
Most of the people I hung around back then don’t attend our class reunions either. That’s because we don’t care:
- who is fat now
- who is still skinny
- who can still dance
- who still can’t dance
- who is still pretty
- who looks ugly now
- who is still hoeing around
- who has a boatload of kids by different daddies
- who don’t know who their baby daddy is
- which guys don’t take care of their children
I don’t pass judgment on anyone, so I don’t care to be around such nonsense at my age. Again, I had to go to school, I don’t have to attend a high school class reunion.
Besides, I already keep in touch with a select few, so I don’t need to attend a reunion. I can talk to my friends anytime I like.
Around the time of my last class reunion, I got into a heated discussion with a childhood friend. She told me that I am supposed to go to the reunion. We attended the same elementary school, but different middle and high schools. She was always the pretty and popular girl who could dance. Boys loved her, girls hated her. She couldn’t understand my point of view at all. She was very sarcastic. But what she don’t realize is that, unless you walk in that person’s shoes, you won’t understand jack shit.
So I ask the question again. Should you attend your high school class reunion?
It is an INDIVIDUAL PREFERENCE.
Have you attended a class reunion? Why or why not?
UPDATE: June 27, 2015
I wrote this blog post 1 year ago. And my decision remains unchanged, I don’t do class reunions. However, my 25 year high school class reunion is near. Not only have I been asked if I’m attending, I’ve also been TOLD (by my closest classmates) that I am going. After a lot of in-depth thinking, I am now considering making a cameo appearance at the meet and greet. I may even slip in the cabaret. But nothing more than that.
I’m sure you will want to know whether I go or not. I’ll post my answer soon.